January 16, 2010 11 am to 4 pm
New Year’s Relationship Resolutions
How can you make the relationship you are in more joyous than ever before?
If you aren’t in a relationship, what can you do to make time with
you something very desirable to the person or persons you want to be in
relationship with? Learn the secret of making time with you more joyous
for you and those you want to be with…
●1pm Pot luck lunch.
●2-4 pm Hot tubbing and socializing
Saturday February 20 11 am to 4 pm
Valentine’s Day with Friends and Lovers
Lead by Terry Brussel and Greg Barnes
Are you a single man or woman looking for a primary partner with whom to
form an open committed relationship? Are you a couple looking for a delightful
single, couple or moresom to join in your lives for anything from a date
to a life time? What kind of partner(s) would bring you the greatest happiness?
How do you choose them? Learn how to use poly meet ups, the internet, matchmakers
and other ways to meet your Right One(s). You’ll get male and female
view points of two people who used these methods and are no longer alone…
●Tribal feast at 1 pm. Bring delicious finger foods to feed each other.
●2-4 pm Hot tubbing and socializing
Valentine Day for Singles, Dyads, Triads and Moresomes
Happy Valentine's Day! Flowers, candy, dancing and passion--someone special
in your arms. Except if there isn't someone special right now...or if your some
special is with his or her primary partner tonight. Then it can be a real downer.
Single and no love partner at present? Don't let all the cards, gift items and
dreamy looks you see around you bring you down. Let it instead motivate you
to be looking for that certain person or couple who may already be looking for
you. Your life mate is out there- -not just one but many possible "right"
ones. There are books on how to look, audio/video tapes and seminars. You can
start at the library or a book store. Browse. Find one with a step by step program,
not just for finding someone wonderful, but perhaps also for accessing what
changes you may need to make to be ready for that person. How to Make a Man
Fall in Love by Tracey Cabot is good. The converse book for men appears to be
out of print, though there are likely others out there. The couples version
is Staying In Love for a Life Time by the same author. For more in depth info
on NLP, Unlimited Power by Tony Robbins is available in tape or book form. It's
better to use recorded material or live training as the way you say things is
at least as important as what you say. Hypnosis can assist you in actually integrating
NLP into your subconscious mind, your child mind, helping you to use it with
the kind of unconscious mastery demonstrated by such practitioners as Tony Robbins
and Tad James. We offer that at Success Center--800-GOAL NOW (462-5669)
What's NLP? Neuro Linguistic Programming is a way to deeply understand
how another person thinks and communicates, what is important to them. It
ranges from mirroring words and gestures to get a potential date to notice
you at a party to saying the right things and being the right person for
your chosen life mate to want to marry. It works.
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I had a client for my matchmaking service who only wanted to meet ladies
with long blond hair. I found a match for him who was everything else he
wanted, but her hair was short and auburn. He reluctantly agreed to meet
her. He called me after the first date to tell me she looked like a horse.
Two weeks later, he called to say she didn't look that bad actually and
to tell me she had other characteristics he loved. The wedding invitation
came six weeks later.
The gut feel that caused me to risk his original aggravation was right,
but the lady had a lot to do with making that work. She made him feel good
about himself; let him know how right for her he was. She learned what special
things really pleased him in the way a woman dressed and acted. She did
those things without changing the essence of who she was, which was right
for him in the first place. Some of this was inside info from me-- the rest
she picked up by watching him, listening to him and asking the right questions.
She learned to speak to him using the kinds of words he best responded to--visual
imagery in his case. This particular gal just seemed to have a knack for
it. If you don't and you wonder why your relationships just don't seem to
last or to make either of you as happy as you'd hoped they would, this technique
can be learned. It's not a way to manipulate another person or to give up
being yourself. It's a way to deeply communicate with a potential special
someone, to fully understand that other person, decide if this is Mr or
Miss Right, and be happy together if it is.
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Here are a few hints. Does your date(or this person you'd like to date) use words like "I see." It looks good to me." ? When you ask a question, does (s)he look up before answering? This person is probably a visual. Make a date to see the sunset together.
Words like "I hear you." "Just listen to me." and looking
to the side before speaking tell you you're dealing with an audio. Make a date
to listen to a concert together. "It's got to feel right." "Let's
get in touch." and looking down before speaking tell you this kinesthetic
might enjoy an ethnic place where soft comfortable cushions are provided to
recline on. This is obviously over simplified. There are many tapes and books
available on the subject as well as personal instruction. Feel free to call
me for more info.
If you do all this or even a good part of it, you'll be too busy solving the loneliness problem to wallow in it. Soon you'll have your arms around the delightful solution.
We couples, who are looking for a third or for another couple, do not have
to deal with the loneliness problems of a single person in this situation.
We've got each other to be romantic with. Even so, this may be a good time
for courting that special person you are both interested in. Don't make
the mistake of figuring this day is just for you and your mate. A possible
third in your relationship is going to look ahead and see many such "special"
couple times creating loneliness and feelings of being excluded in the future.
If this person is truly important to you, include him or her in. If she's
a lady, the gentleman should get flowers and special gifts for both (different
ones) and take them to dinner together. Show her that old fashioned romance
need not be lost in this new style relationship. If the possible third is
a male, the male member of the couple should include him in planning and
implementing a romantic evening for your lady love. He may not offer, feeling
awkward about intruding. You'll most likely have to ask him to join you
and even persuade him that he is not a third wheel. NLP can be useful for
this sort of thing, too. It will be worth the trouble if your Dream is a
triad or even a triad as a starting point for a larger group marriage. This
is true even if the relationship is going to stay a non residential one.
Being inclusive rather than exclusive will definitely make your single lovers
feel cared for and cherished at a time which could be more difficult for
them than for you.
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From the 118 going east, get off at De Soto Avenue, head South on De Soto to Parthenia, head East on Parthenia, head South on Winnetka, head East on Chase one block and head North on Penfield to 8515.
From the 118 going west, get off at Tampa Avenue, head South on Tampa to Parthenia, head West on Parthenia, head South on Winnetka, head East on Chase (one block), head North on Penfield.
From the 101, get off at Winnetka Avenue, head North on Winnetka Avenue to Chase (next signal North of Roscoe). Head East on Chase Street and go one block turn left on Penfield Avenue.
We are the big white house on the left hand side of the street; first house on Penfield north of Chase Street.
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